You are not relationship material.
I think some people genuinely don’t realise they’ve slowly ruined their own chances with the type of person they keep saying they want. And before people start crying “everybody deserves love” relax. I’m not saying people can’t change. I’m not saying one mistake means your life is over either. Well, maybe it is? I’m saying at some point your lifestyle starts speaking louder than your intentions. People tend to forget that reality still exists outside of motivational quotes and TikTok therapists. A lot of people want a calm, disciplined, emotionally intelligent partner while bringing absolute confusion into somebody else’s life. No direction, no stable income. Can’t save money, lives above their means. Still living like a uni fresher at 34. Multiple baby fathers or mothers. No restraint, still moving off impulse and temporary validation. Lack of self-discipline, self-respect, self-control. Has issues creating structure or routine. Constantly chasing feelings over stability. Surrounded b...