You haven’t changed
Stepping away from something is only the first part. The actual work is what you do with the space you’ve created. If you remove yourself from certain environments to improve yourself, then improve yourself. That’s the whole point. But a lot of people step away and then just… sit there. Bedrotting. Scrolling. Doing absolutely nothing with the opportunity they gave themselves. The environment wasn’t the problem then, was it. If you stop drinking but pick up a weed habit, nothing changed. If you quit weed and start drinking again, nothing changed. You just rotated the vice and called it progress. If you decide to be celibate but you’re on your pornhub every other night, you haven’t practiced discipline. You’ve just changed the method. If you cut off a toxic friend group but spend all your time isolating and bitter, you haven’t healed. You’ve just moved the misery indoors. If you leave a bad relationship to “work on yourself” and immediately jump into another one, you skipped the whole po...