You Are Not Your Worst Moment
One moment. That is all it takes for someone to forget everything they ever knew about you. You can spend years being reliable, being honest, being the person people call when things go wrong. Then one slip, one bad decision, something said out of context, or just a moment where you were not at your best, and suddenly that becomes the story. Everything else you have ever done gets filtered through that one thing. If you really sit with that, it is a little heartbreaking. When someone reduces you to your worst moment. Especially when they feel hurt, disappointed, or caught off guard. It is easier to label someone than to accept that humans are complicated and sometimes mess up. The truth is you are not one moment. You are every time you showed up when it was hard. Every good thing you did that nobody noticed. Every effort, every act of kindness, every day you tried. One mistake does not erase any of that, even if it sometimes feels like it does. The hard part is often the waiting. Waiti...