I don't think i am better
You do not have to think you are better than someone to recognise exactly what they are. Sometimes telling people the truth about themselves is exhausting because the second you do, they assume it comes from arrogance. As if pointing out someone's behaviour automatically means you believe you are above them. It does not. The moment you hold a mirror up to certain people, they stop focusing on what was said and start focusing on who said it. "Who are you to tell me about myself?" And just like that, the conversation changes. It is no longer about their behaviour. It is about your motives. Your character gets questioned. Your tone gets criticised. Suddenly you are on trial for the crime of noticing. It is a convenient tactic. Because if they can make it about you, they never have to deal with the point itself. You do not need to think you are superior to recognise when someone is selfish, rude, dishonest or just generally unpleasant. A doctor does not need to be healthier t...