Do you want to be in a relationship?
Some people have an unhealthy fixation with romantic relationships. Like life is on pause unless they have somebody beside them. Every phase of their life becomes about finding someone, keeping someone, talking to someone, or recovering from someone. At some point it stops being about love and starts looking like dependency. There is nothing wrong with being single while you work on yourself. In fact, for a lot of people, that is exactly what needs to happen. Not every season of your life is meant to be shared. Some parts of your life are supposed to be built in private. Discipline, stability, self-respect, emotional control, direction. A relationship cannot replace any of that. It can distract you from the lack of it, but it cannot build it for you. A lot of people are not actually looking for companionship. They are looking for relief. Relief from boredom. Relief from loneliness. Relief from having to sit with themselves. Relief from sexual desires. So they run into relationships not...