Continuously Changing.

The way I see it, there’s no such thing as a continuous mindset. We’re not wired one way forever. Life keeps moving, throwing new situations at us, so how can your way of thinking stay fixed? That’s why things like astrology or them recycled quotes don’t really sit well with me (coming from me, the same person that posts quotes all the time, lool). They make it seem like one paragraph can sum you up, when really your thoughts and outlook on life is always changing.

If I’m broke and hustling, quotes about sacrifice, grinding and patience hit me harder because that’s my reality at the time. If I’m comfortable, enjoying myself, then words about peace, balance and living good connect more. And if I’m spending most of my time on my own, of course I’m going to lean toward stuff about independence and self-reflection, because that’s the space I’m in.

It’s always conditional. Family, friends, money, environment, career, even when scrolling through TikTok at 2am, all of that shapes what resonates with you. People don’t always see it like that. Nobody’s permanently locked into one mindset. We adjust with our situations, we shift depending on our seasons. Sometimes you’re in survival mode, sometimes you’re enjoying life, sometimes you’re in between just figuring out what’s next.

That’s why I write the way I do. My blogs are just reflections of where I’m my way of thinking is at in that very moment. My mindset changes when my environment changes, when my circle changes, when my priorities change. What I write today might not be what I’d write next year, and that’s the whole point. It’s rooted in how I feel and think right now, not in some fixed idea of who I am or who I think I’m supposed to be.

And that’s why I don’t take every quote too seriously. You’ll see something about “fake friends” and think it’s deep, but give it a week and the same person who wrote it is out with those same friends sipping cocktails and digging into some lamb chops, with that special chimichurri butter house sauce. That’s just life. What feels real in one moment can feel irrelevant in the next.

I don’t judge people for relating to things like that, because I get it, it feels spot on in that moment, but it will never capture the full picture. We’re constantly rewriting our pages, and that’s the beauty of it.